Sunday, January 26, 2020

Top Books of 2019

Happy 2020! In 2019 I read 45 books, 29 of which were fiction. Here are my favorites for both fiction and not.

NONFICTION

I read a lot of great nonfiction this year. The one that I’ve recommended the most is Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker. This book was about the science behind sleep – and what our bodies and brains are doing while we sleep. It covered everything from how memory is created and strengthened while we sleep to the impact sleep has on illnesses like heart disease and diabetes, all with scientific studies to back up the claims. More than anything, this book gave me license to sleep, and to think about it as equally important to diet and exercise.

Invisible Women by Caroline Criado-Perez was also excellent. It talked about how women are not included in most research studies in most fields, which impacts everything from civic decisions to healthcare to furniture design. While she occasionally drifted into a paragraph or two of sarcasm, overall this book was grounded in data and quite eye-opening, even for a well-read feminist.

The comprehensive Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson was recommended to me by someone years ago at synagogue and I finally got into it this year. It chronicled the Great Migration of African Americans to the North from roughly 1916 to 1970. The book both told the general history, as well as followed three specific individuals throughout their lives as they moved from the brutal familiarity of the South to the foreign opportunity of the North and West. While long, this book was not boring at any point – and made me really think about the impact this has had on American politics and race today.

Webster read The Lost City of the Monkey God by Douglas Preston before I did, a rare occurrence. It was written by a journalist who accompanied a group of archeologists to Honduras to search for a mysterious and famous “lost city.” While it was fun to read along as they make some amazing discoveries, several of them also contract a sometimes-fatal disease, which becomes in and of itself a part of the narrative.

My last nonfiction highlight is a memoir by Steve Jobs’ daughter, Lisa Brennan-Jobs: Small Fry. Her relationship with Jobs is complex, to say the least, and she does a beautiful job depicting the truth around his behavior and their interactions, both good and bad. She’s honest without being vengeful, though as a reader I could have understood either choice.

Some others I enjoyed include Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge, based on her now-famous blog post of the same title, and memoir I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou that I had shamefully missed until this year.

The Great Pretender by Susan Cahalan continued her personal story about misdiagnosis (chronicled in Brain on Fire) with an examination of a famous experiment where several people went undercover in mental hospitals to prove how poorly mental illness is diagnosed, with unexpected results. Michael Pollan’s How to Change your Mind was a thorough history and current state reporting of how LSD and other hallucinogens can be used to treat mental illness.

Perhaps the most unique book I read this year was On Finding by Andreas Eckstrom, a Swedish futurist who keynoted by company’s conference in 2019. It goes from the very public evisceration of big tech companies who control what information we get, to very personal concerns about his health, without being preachy or meandering. Finally, I enjoyed a predictable romp with Bitcoin Billionaires by Ben Mezrich, which posits that the Winklevoss brothers are headed towards redemption.

FICTION

My fiction game was strong too.

It’s hard to pick a favorite, but I really enjoyed Saints for All Occasions by Courtney Sullivan, which was about two sisters who leave Ireland for the US, and the story of how one becomes the matriarch of a large family while the other becomes a nun.  There were predictable turns of plot, but it was the writing and the characters who made it compelling.

A Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles was charming and complex, despite its being about a man who is living in a hotel under house arrest, and the entire book occurring within its walls.  He befriends a young girl who is living there, and they create an entire universe within the hotel, full of games and tricks and secret hideouts.  It’s a sweet relationship, and one that takes center stage as other things occur in the hotel and in the world that could otherwise darken their lives.

Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens stood up to the hype. It was beautifully written, with a complex and tough heroine and rich setting, in the marshland of North Carolina. This is the kind of book that stayed with me more for how it made me feel while I was reading it than it did the plot, but certainly ranks as a favorite.

I don’t remember reading anything like Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson recently. This book is about a young woman who finds herself nannying for the eccentric step-children of her college roommate, who is living a storybook life with a beautiful home and blue-blooded politician husband. It had great pacing, and kept me reading, but the true value was in the depictions of who we love and how we love.

Decades, I might suggest, before Hulu made Gilead a household name, I read The Handmaid’s Tale and never forgot it. This year I was delighted to find that though the library queue for The Testaments by Margaret Atwood was hundreds of people long, 2018-me had pre-ordered it, and it arrived on its publication day. It did not disappoint. Taking place 15 years after the previous book, this one brings back several familiar characters, and adds some new ones.  While there are still open questions at the end of The Testaments, the reader’s understanding of the beginnings of Gilead, and the nuances behind the decisions people make, is far evolved.

The List by Martin Fletcher follows a boardinghouse full of refugees in London after WWII.  In particular, two Austrian Jews who are expecting a baby, and who wait daily to hear whether relatives of theirs survived or not. In the face of rising anti-Semitism and anti-refugee sentiment in London, they remain steadfast in their desire to continue building a new post-war life; the parallels are not lost on today’s reader.  Not only does this book tell the story of an individual family, it also tells the story of a generation, and of a universal human experience.

Not just a mystery, but also not just a dystopic novel, The Last by Hanna Jameson was a very imaginative book.  After a set of nuclear bombs destroy several major cities, a small remote resort hotel in Switzerland remains home to a disparate collection of people, some of whom decide to stay put, while others choose to venture out and see if they can return home. For those who stay, a new normal emerges, rationing food, collecting rainwater, and generally keeping busy, until a young girl’s body is found. While the main character seeks the truth about her death, he also struggles with his decision to stay at the hotel, rather than face the aftermath of returning to the real world.

We should all be reading more Native American fiction, and there’s no better book to start with than There, There by Tommy Orange.  In constructing a world where Indians from different walks of life are all descending on a convention-center-sized Powwow, Orange introduces us to several complex characters, who travel there for a host of different reasons.  While a powerful profile of individual Native Americans, the book also succeeds in being a plot-driven story with a worthwhile payoff.

The Atlas of Forgotten Places by Jenny D. Williams satisfied my unrealistic wanderlust. In it, a woman, long retired from aid work in Africa, is thrust back into the world she left as her niece disappears in Uganda, herself an aid worker. Exploring love, devotion, corruption, and the beautiful but complex setting of Africa, this book was a gorgeous read.

Ambitious yet digestible, Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi follows a family hundreds of years from tribal life in Ghana to modern-day America. This novel tells the story of two half-sisters, one of whom marries the British Governor, and the other of whom is enslaved by the British. Each chapter follows one of the sister’s lines, and the ways in which they diverge, intersect, and contrast. Beautifully written, with unforgettable characters, this book held my attention strongly.

Some other novels I enjoyed were Peace Like a River by Leif Enger, The Magician’s Assistant by Ann Patchett, and The Summer Book by Tove Jansson, all of which explored family and love; The Line that Held Us by David Job and The Mars Room by Rachel Kushner were strongly written novels about people living on the edge, one decision indelibly altering their lives.

The Japanese Lover by Isabel Allende is quintessential Allende, rich in both plot and characters, this time about people living between cultures, while A Woman is No Man by Etaf Rum did the same, but for Palestinians living in America.

Finally, as period pieces, Column of Fire by Ken Follett (part of the Pillars of the Earth trilogy) and Through a Glass Darkly by Karleen Koen (part of the Tamworth saga) helped fill the hole in my heart that Downton Abbey used to inhabit.


Enjoy 2020, my readers, and let me know what books you just can’t put down.

Saturday, January 19, 2019

Top Books of 2018

Hello readers!

This is my fifteenth year writing this end-of-year list, and this was as great a year for reading as ever.

Let's start with FICTION.

Of the 74 books I read this year, 56 of them were fiction.  These were the best ones, which under no circumstances could I rank so I will share them alphabetically:

Beantown was a beautifully written novel about a small town high school hockey team whose success will bring (or stand in the way of) important resources and fame to a failing town. The adults invested in the team are as engaged as the children, and this story of one of their seasons was lovely and heartbreaking. The sequel has come out and I am eager to see what happens, but dread saying goodbye to the town.

Gone to Soldiers did not seem like a Marge Piercy book as much as it did one by Leon Uris. It was a sweeping saga, with dozens of main characters, taking place during WWII. Some characters are Jewish victims in Europe, others are American, and still others are soldiers. All their lives connect, although some not right away. I couldn’t wait to see what happened to everyone. This was a bittersweet book, and unforgettable.

Speaking of unforgettable, The Great Alone still gives me chills when I think about it. After a family relocates to rural Alaska at the behest of the husband, whose intermittent mania has moved the family many times, they learn just how remote their new home is, and just how real the dangers are of living in this place. The women are isolated and, sometimes, powerless; the heroine comes of age in rural Alaska, and is someone easy to root for.

Somehow I missed The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Klay along the way. I read Chabon’s wife Ayelet Waldman’s book last year and it reminded me to try him again. Well this was superb. It was about a pair of cousins who become comic book writers. There’s no better way to explain the plot, but this was a saga – a wonderful story with love, heartache, disappointment, history, intrigue, and even a little magic. I would describe this is genre-busting.  Love love loved it.

The Martian, better known as a movie, was a great book. It was about an astronaut who is stranded on Mars, and his relentless efforts to communicate with Earth.  It reminded me a lot of Apollo 13, where it’s really a humanitarian problem disguised as an engineering problem. Can he generate enough food, electricity, and water to keep himself alive?  And can he keep his morale up enough to care?

I’m hardly the first person to recommend Sing, Unburied, Sing but damn it was a great book. It was about a family in Mississippi, who is struggling with race, drugs, incarceration, and poverty. Held together by a strong inter-generational family structure, the family does their best to love and to support each other, but don’t always succeed. Probably the most beautifully written book, language-wise, I read this year.

The Power had a really unique premise. Women all over the world suddenly start to be able to emit electricity. While it makes them powerful in some situations, they don’t always use it with the best intentions. And men who fear the power also act in dangerous ways. Terrifying, empowering, and timely, this was a really thought-provoking novel.

In the same genre was The Book of the Unnamed Midwife, an Atwood-esque dystopic novel about a world where a fever has killed most women. Childbirth becomes very dangerous, and as a result, there are few pregnancies and babies. The narrator of the book is a woman who masquerades as a man for her own safety, who begins to help women with pregnancy and childbirth.  Can’t wait to get to the sequels.

Still on the topic of fiction, there are 14 other books that also really liked.

The Female Persuasion was a novel about a mentorship between a conventional college student and a famous feminist. The Lost Family was beautifully written story about a man who lost his first wife in the Holocaust and the new life he tries to build with his second wife. Fruit of the Drunken Tree was a very lyrical novel about two young girls – one the daughter of an affluent family, the other the family’s maid – and their relationship in tumultuous Bogota, Colombia.

Pachinko was an epic about several generations of Koreans when Korea was occupied by the Japanese. In The Twelve-Mile Straight, a woman births two babies, one white and one black, and the consequences in her Georgia town are far reaching; this is probably the book I was most surprised wasn’t more heralded. I had a good time with Elinor Oliphant is Completely Fine, a quirky book about a grown woman on the autism spectrum who makes her first friends. And Chemistry was a quick but lovely read about a young scientist who struggles with her personal relationships.

This Is How it Always Is was a thought provoking story about how a well-meaning family handles their elementary-aged child who comes out as transgender. In a similar theme, That Kind of Mother is about a white woman who adopts the child of her black nanny, when the nanny unexpectedly dies.

Finally, but certainly not least, five books that I read taught me about other parts of the world: Stay With Me was about a young couple who struggle with infertility in Nigeria; Home Fire is about a set of siblings whose lives span across London, the U.S., and the Middle East; Exit West is about a young couple who escapes an unnamed country similar to Afghanistan; The Constant Gardner brought me to Kenya through the eyes of a British diplomat; and Behold the Dreamers is about a young family from Cameroon trying to make it in New York City.

And on to NONFICTION.

The remaining 18 books I read were nonfiction. By far, my favorite was The Lost, which was a memoir written by a man searching for the family members lost in the Holocaust.

I read several wonderful memoirs about parenting and being parented: The Motherhood Affidavits, about a woman who keeps having children, while her husband struggles to build a small-town law firm; Priestdaddy, about a woman’s unconventional upbringing by her Catholic priest father; Educated, about a woman’s abusive childhood and victorious reclamation of her life through education; and I'm Just Happy to Be Here, by a favorite blogger of mine who struggled with substance abuse as a young mother, and finds her way to be a good mother.

Both Hillbilly Elegy, a memoir about a white man growing up in Appalachian poverty, and Between the World and Me, a letter the author writes to his son about what he should know about growing up black in America, opened my eyes to rich and marginalized cultures within the U.S.

The Boys in the Boat was a great story, meticulously researched and depicted, about an underdog rowing team from University of Seattle and their unlikely trip to the Berlin Olympics of 1936.

And if you just need a sweet read, that isn’t thick with plot, or death, or adventure, or tangly relationships, then I can highly recommend Anne Lamott’s Almost Everything, which is none of those things, and very funny, and also very, very hopeful.

Let me know what you read this year - and have a wonderful 2019.

Sheryl

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

Review: Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children

Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children by Ransom Riggs
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is, by far, one of the most unusual and creative books I've read in a long time. It was a novel, but one that made great use of unique photographs as part of the narrative. I thought I'd hate that but I didn't. The story is about a young boy who is very close to his odd grandfather. When his grandfather dies, the boy is left a quest to understand his last words. This takes him to an island where he finds an orphanage that isn't quite as abandoned and closed as most people think. To share more would be to ruin the delight of the book, but it is a lovely coming-of-age story set in a fantasy.

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Monday, December 10, 2018

Review: Nine Perfect Strangers

Nine Perfect Strangers Nine Perfect Strangers by Liane Moriarty
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Liane Moriarty is usually amazing brain candy, but this book was more like a graham cracker. It was about nine people who go to a holistic spa (each for their own reasons) but find the experience less relaxing and more threatening. The longer they are there, the stranger the treatments become, all the while their interpersonal challenges are playing out. While the characters were juicy and fun, the plot was really, really strange, and the ending was just plain weird. Didn't love this one.

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Tuesday, November 27, 2018

Review: Rich People Problems

Rich People Problems Rich People Problems by Kevin Kwan
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I mean, the Crazy Rich Asians books are all just so.much.fun. I saved this for the week I started my new job, and had a great time reading it. This one is about Nick's Amah (grandmother) who is on her deathbed. With a huge estate at stake, relatives come out of the woodwork and descend on her property to convince Amah of their loyalty, love, and devotion. Meanwhile, the usual array of marriages, love affairs, and misunderstandings ensure that hilarity and happy endings ensue. A fitting and delightful final novel for the trilogy.

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Sunday, November 25, 2018

Review: Leave No Trace

Leave No Trace Leave No Trace by Mindy Mejia
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This was a fun quick read. It was about a young man who re-appears from the wilderness in Minnesota a decade after disappearing with his father on a camping trip. He refuses to talk, and is sent to a mental hospital and assigned to a young speech therapist. As the book progresses, they form a strong bond, one that is at first therapeutic, and then begins to grow past that. Meanwhile, the young man continues to stonewall authorities about what happened to him and his father. All in all a fun psychological thriller, but not particularly memorable.

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Friday, November 23, 2018

Review: Praise Song for the Butterflies

Praise Song for the Butterflies Praise Song for the Butterflies by Bernice L. McFadden
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Found this novel on the Millions list and it will remain with me as one of the most memorable things I read this year. It is about a young woman who grows up, initially happy, in West Africa. When her family falls on hard times, tradition urges her father to sell her to a shrine, where she is left, confused, to a life of servitude and abuse. Ultimately she escapes, but not before her childhood is over. After resuming a new life in the United States, she struggles to reconcile with family and with her own past.

The writing of this book was uneven - sometimes written as a YA book, in other places, deeper, and in other places rushed. Perhaps different editing would have created a better work product. That aside, the story was fascinating and memorable.

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Review: The Language of Flowers

The Language of Flowers The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I heard about this book on a moms' email list I'm on, and it stayed on my booklist for a while until I found it at our local used bookstore. It was a really well-written and really unique book. It is the story of a young woman who has aged out of the foster care system in California, and begins to work for a florist. She is introduced to "The Language of Flowers," a Victorian system for communicating using different species of flowers.

She grows into being a well-known florist herself, falls in love, and becomes pregnant. And yet, her history haunts her - and is told in flashbacks in alternating chapters. The reader learns of her childhood, various foster homes she was in, and a family that came to love her, but is clearly no longer in her life in the current time.

All in all, a good read and what it might get a little preachy about foster care, and what it might get a little programmatic with flower language, is absolved with the beauty of the story.

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Review: Almost Everything: Notes on Hope

Almost Everything: Notes on Hope Almost Everything: Notes on Hope by Anne Lamott
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I mean, for real, could the world need anything more right now than a fabulous Anne Lamott book? She is, as usual, funny, honest, prophetic, and comforting. Her willingness to put her own neuroses, fears, and disappointments on full display is what makes her so delightfully accessible and helpful. Like reading an email from a friend, this book is balm, salve, and all the things Annie does to sneak spirituality into our lives.

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Tuesday, November 20, 2018

Review: The Female Persuasion

The Female Persuasion The Female Persuasion by Meg Wolitzer
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Loved this one! It is a novel that follows a young woman who meets a prominent feminist while in college. The older woman eventually takes the younger under her wing, and this changes the course of both of their lives. I loved the characters, the story, and most of all, Wolitzer's ability to depict feelings as solid, tangible, tactical things. This was a great read, and one I couldn't wait to get back into each night.

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Sunday, November 18, 2018

Review: Artemis

Artemis Artemis by Andy Weir
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I love love loved Weir's The Martian book, and had high hopes for this. It was good, but not nearly as good as that one. The story followed a young woman who lives in a community on the (now colonized) moon. She is somewhat of an outlaw, smuggling in contraband and doing odd jobs for anyone who will pay. When she is approached to perform an even greater crime, she can't resist but soon finds herself in a world of trouble.

The best part of this book was the action - it read quickly and was fun to see what happened next. However, the biggest issue with this book was the character development. It was obviously a man writing a woman in the first person, and he was not familiar with how a woman would think/act/want. Fatal flaw.

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Tuesday, November 13, 2018

Review: The Lost Family

The Lost Family The Lost Family by Jenna Blum
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I just learned that Blum lives in Boston, when I saw that she was speaking at our local library. I thought Those who Save Us was one of the best books I've ever read, and I was interested in reading another by her. It did not disappoint.

The story follows a young man, who comes to the U.S. escaping WWII, where he has lost his wife and twin daughters. When he meets a woman in the restaurant he runs (named Masha, for his first wife), he struggles with whether to live in the past, or to try and form a relationship with her. Told from different points of view, this book explored generational pain, and how the hope of recovery is slim, but strong.

Lovely.

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Wednesday, November 07, 2018

Review: Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter

Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter by Tom Franklin
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Heard about this book on NPR, and this was one of those titles that languished on my to-read list for over a year. I'm glad I finally got around to reading it, because the book was really, really good. It was about a set of childhood friends from rural Mississippi whose paths cross again as adults. One of them has become the town constable, while the other is ostracized from his neighbors, after he is accused of a crime and never cleared of it. When another crime occurs, and he becomes the most likely suspect. The writing was excellent, as was the character development. And I never would have figured out the ending!

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Thursday, November 01, 2018

Review: I Will Not Fear: My Story of a Lifetime of Building Faith Under Fire

I Will Not Fear: My Story of a Lifetime of Building Faith Under Fire I Will Not Fear: My Story of a Lifetime of Building Faith Under Fire by Melba Pattillo Beals
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

You'd have to be a monster/racist to dislike a memoir by one of the Little Rock Nine - the students who integrated the Little Rock, Arkansas school system under the watch of the National Guard. And I was touched by Beals' story - I hadn't known many of the details of the situation, in fact, I believe I had an image from an 8th grade text book of a little girl entering the school as the entirety of my knowledge of it.

That said, it was disorienting to me how much Beals spoke about God and faith as the reason for her overcoming so much adversity. I kept wanting to shake her and say - YOU did that, God didn't. But I guess that's the thing about faith. It's not like I don't read faith-based authors regularly (see Anne Lamott, Jen Hatmaker, etc), but this was different. I admire Beals, of course, and I also wonder what it is like to have that style of faith.

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Review: Love, Africa: A Memoir of Romance, War, and Survival

Love, Africa: A Memoir of Romance, War, and Survival Love, Africa: A Memoir of Romance, War, and Survival by Jeffrey Gettleman
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I saw this book at the MIT bookstore and it piqued my interest. It's about a young reporter who decides to focus on east Africa, a volatile and scary part of the world. At the same time, he falls in love with a woman, and spends years trying to balance both desires with each other. The book was very well-written and fascinating - I particularly liked the descriptions of his time in Africa. That said, I found him as a human to be very selfish and childish. His expectations of his girlfriend were ridiculous, and unreasonable. It made me like the book less, although that's not a comment on how it was written or the flow of the book.

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