Monday, May 30, 2016

Review: Fingersmith

Fingersmith Fingersmith by Sarah Waters
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I loved this book - maybe my favorite so far this year. It was about a band of thieves in London who figure out a scheme to marry one of them off to a rich woman with a major inheritance. The plotting was great - surprising and wonderfully horrid. I loved the characters, and the author's setting of time and place was amazing. It reminded me a little of A Reliable Wife in its gothic-like storytelling and twists. Highly recommended.

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Review: The Lovers: Romeo and Juliet in Afghanistan

The Lovers: Romeo and Juliet in Afghanistan The Lovers: Romeo and Juliet in Afghanistan by Rod Nordland
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This was a fascinating book. It was about two teenagers in Afghanistan who fall in love, and because of laws and customs of differing ethnic groups, their lives are threatened when they decide to run away and get married. What I liked most about this book was that while the author was a New York Times journalist, he readily admits early on that his journalistic integrity was superseded by his desire to protect and help these kids, and much of the book was his reflections on their journey and his part in it. I'll also mention that there are some really terrible anecdotes in this book around women, violence, and sexual abuse, which was a tough but important witness-bearing and learning about what was going on in this part of the world.

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Review: The Lovers: Romeo and Juliet in Afghanistan

The Lovers: Romeo and Juliet in Afghanistan The Lovers: Romeo and Juliet in Afghanistan by Rod Nordland
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This was a fascinating book. It was about two teenagers in Afghanistan who fall in love, and because of laws and customs of differing ethnic groups, their lives are threatened when they decide to run away and get married. What I liked most about this book was that while the author was a New York Times journalist, he readily admits early on that his journalistic integrity was superseded by his desire to protect and help these kids, and much of the book was his reflections on their journey and his part in it. I'll also mention that there are some really terrible anecdotes in this book around women, violence, and sexual abuse, which was a tough but important witness-bearing and learning about what was going on in this part of the world.

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Review: Crazy Rich Asians

Crazy Rich Asians Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I really, really liked this book. I read it in the middle of a set of "beach read" books, and it stood out. It's about a Chinese-American woman whose boyfriend is from a rich Singaporean family. I mean, really rich. Really, really rich. She goes home with him for a wedding one summer in college and all the politics, backstabbing, and plotting that you can imagine goes on within his family. She is judged as "American-born Chinese" ABC, which is less prestigious than her boyfriend's native standing. All in all a fun, funny, book and I was delighted to see there is a sequel!

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Review: Where'd You Go, Bernadette

Where'd You Go, Bernadette Where'd You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This book was ok. It was recommended on a moms' email group that I read as a fun, light read. I really enjoyed the first 2/3 of it - Bernadette is an iconoclast mom whose only daughter goes to a high-end preppy school, and she stirs up all kinds of trouble. It was fun to read about her kapers, and also read the other characters' reactions to them, often in letters or memos. The book went a bit off the rails at the end, though, almost as if the author didn't know what to do after the main plot lines went in a certain direction. A fun read, but not too satisfying of one.

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Sunday, May 29, 2016

Review: Beyond Belief: The Secret Lives of Women in Extreme Religions

Beyond Belief: The Secret Lives of Women in Extreme Religions Beyond Belief: The Secret Lives of Women in Extreme Religions by Cami Ostman
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This ended up on my reading list because I had read an excerpt in some other publication. It was ok. Each chapter was short, just a few pages, and told the story of a woman in an "extreme" religion, from Orthodox Jewry to Mormonism. While I liked many of the stories, the editing was uneven, so some were much more multi-dimensional than others. I applaud each of the women for sharing her story, but wish the writing was more consistent and that a clearer theme arose across all the memoirs.

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Review: China Dolls

China Dolls China Dolls by Lisa See
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Lisa See never disappoints. This was about three friends who work in the nightclubs of San Francisco in the 1930's. They are Chinese, or at least they are in the clubs, and their lives take all sorts of twists and turns as they interact with their families, lovers, and each other. This book was incredibly evocative of time and place, and I really enjoyed the story as well as the settings See created.

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Review: Lucky Us

Lucky Us Lucky Us by Amy Bloom
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book was kind of a wild ride. It was about two half-sisters from broken families who build their own new sense of family from people they meet throughout their lives. It's set in the 1940's and '50's, mostly in the Northeast but some parts in LA. The characters are very colorful, and the situations they find themselves in seem contrived at times, or at the least, unlikely. There are strange connections between characters and unusual choices. Told mostly through narrative, but also with some letters between characters, this kept my interest despite its strange storylines.

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Review: The Argonauts

The Argonauts The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Wow. I rarely come upon a book that I feel like was too "hard" for me, but this was one. My cousin recommended it to me, which is a testament to her overestimation of my intellect. This is a memoir, sort of, well, at least it is a set of writings and reflections based on the author's life, where she is married to an artist who is genderqueer and she has their first child. It's a short book, but she packs in observations about parenthood, pregnancy, feminism, gay culture, transgender culture, and race, to name a few topics. She quotes a lot of sources I was unfamiliar with, really digging into some of the texts. Overall I finished the book feeling like "this was great, but a lot of it over my head."

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Review: All the Light We Cannot See

All the Light We Cannot See All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book seemed to be everywhere. On all the lists and in all the stores. I thought it was really good. It's about two young people during WWII. One is blind, and has oriented herself to her surroundings though models that her father makes. The other is a gifted engineer who is drafted by Hitler Youth to fix radios for the Nazis. I've read a lot of Holocaust literature, but this was really a unique story. The writing was good, but the story was really interesting to discover.

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Review: Everything I Never Told You

Everything I Never Told You Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I heard about this on the New York Times end of year list. I liked it. It was about a young woman who is found dead, and the biracial family she came from. The story uncovers the reason for her death and the family dynamics that formed the basis for it. The plot wasn't that unique, but the writing and character development were excellent. I'll look forward to her next book.

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Saturday, January 30, 2016

Top Books of 2015

Happy New Year, readers!

I’m a bit late to the party in sharing my favorite books from 2016, but it’s been a big year for us!  Web and I both continued working for software startups, his (Clari) providing a SaaS solution for sales analytics, and mine (Infinio) improving storage performance in virtualized datacenters. If our kids don’t turn out to be venture capitalists, we’ll be very surprised.

That’s right – “kids” – on May 28th, we added Micah Julien to our family.  He’s a healthy, happy little guy who is working on sitting up by himself, and eating an unending supply of cereal.  Sasha turned 3 this month and is thriving in preschool. She is a loving and attentive big sister, eager to include Micah in all our family activities.  Cockapoo Lucy also loves our new addition, and does a great job cleaning under his high chair.

I read 31 books this year – fewer than in past years, but still not bad. J  I also read a disproportionate number of “beach reads” during maternity leave and after.  

Here are my favorites, in the order I read them.  Click on each link to read my full review:

Fiction
Pigs in Heaven – when a white woman’s adopted Native American daughter becomes famous, questions about her adoption arise.

Gold – two best friends who are Olympic ice skaters compete with each other and try to balance family and friendship over their careers.

We are all Completely beside Ourselves – if you don’t know the plot of this book, I’m not going to spoil it.  Just read it – without reading any more reviews.

The Last Good Paradise – when a group of tourists, each unhappy in their own way, vacation on a remote Polynesian island, unlikely relationships and alliances form.

The Pearl that Broke its Shell – parallel stories of women living in Afghanistan in different generations, each trying to survive, by living disguised as a man.

Station Eleven – in this character-driven novel, a traveling group of performers try to survive amidst the chaos and danger of a post-apocalyptic world.



Non-fiction
The Filter Bubble – commentary on how monetizing the Internet is leading to individual access to information becoming an increasingly narrow view.

How to Get Your Kid to Eat – a practical guide to cultivating healthy eating habits for kids, from newborns to adolescents.

Seabiscuit – the saga of the most unlikely horse to become a champion racehorse, 1920’s the people who surrounded him, and the nation’s shared excitement of his rise.

Brain on Fire – a memoir of a young woman’s family’s quest to get an accurate diagnosis for an unusual brain disease, after being mis-diagnosed repeatedly.

Tender Points – my cousin’s book on women, trauma, and chronic pain, in short vignettes and poems, part memoir, part commentary.

“I have little kids” Fiction
Little Big Lies – the lies that several women tell each other, and themselves, begin to catch up to them in a small town, but in the end, women’s friendship wins.

Written in my Own Heart’s Blood – the next of the Outlander books, a familiar romp through history with beloved characters, and the most puzzling ending of all the novels thus far

The Husband’s Secret – a seemingly happy marriage is threatened when a woman finds some information about her husband he has been hiding

Girl on a Train –a mystery about a woman whose fantasies about a couple whose house she could see from the train each day began to intersect her real life.

What Alice Forgot – after an accident at the gym, a woman wakes up in the hospital to find that her happy marriage has dissolved and she has more children than she remembered.


Dark Places – decades after it happens, a woman helps to investigate the murder of her family in her childhood home

Saturday, January 16, 2016

Review: The Translator

The Translator The Translator by Nina Schuyler
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I think my 2 year old daughter picked this out - we were at the library, and she pointed to it and said, "mommy, get that one!" so I did.

My experience reading this book was really, really weird. It's about a woman who is a professional translator. After being in a traumatic accident, she loses her ability to speak English, but remains fluent in Japanese. After living this way for a while, she decides to visit Japan and track down the Noh actor who was the inspiration for the last book she had translated.

The story up to that point is well-written and compelling. I began wondering why the book hadn't been recognized more. Then the book took a turn - it got very emotional and fantastical relating to Noh theater. A strange storyline with the translator's daughter emerged, and the ending was completely unsatisfying and disconnected from the rest of the book.

I'd try something else by the author, because I really enjoyed her writing. But this book as a whole was not great.

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Review: Station Eleven

Station Eleven Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Kim recommended this book, and Lisa seconded it, so I took that as a great set of recommendations.

I liked it a lot. I've read a *lot* of post-apocolyptic fiction - enough so that when one of Mandel's characters makes an reference to an obscure book from this genre, I had read it: The Passage.

This book was interesting in a few ways. First, it was very much about the characters and character development, not about plot. Even minor characters (like a girl in an airport) are exceptionally well-thought through and sketched completely with just a few details. The world becomes post-apocalyptic after a bad flu kills most of the population and infrastructure (like electricity) completely disintegrates. Decades later, there are small settlements of groups of people, but a lot of mistrust between different towns, and nearly no new infrastructure has emerged.

The frustrating part of this book was also probably what made it so good - not only did it move back and forth across time, but it didn't give a lot of details about when the flu hit. There were a few small stories about specific people during the time around the flu, and through the intervening years, but not a complete narrative of the collapse. But like I said, that was part of what was so good about the book - how well Mandel told a story with really limited details, and how much it focused me on the characters.

In short, a great read. Hope to read more by her in the future.

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Saturday, November 28, 2015

Review: The Playgroup: A Novel

The Playgroup: A Novel The Playgroup: A Novel by Nelsie Spencer
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I really liked the first half of this book - it's about a woman who enrolls her toddler in a prestigious New York City playgroup (sounded like a preschool to me) and feels like her lifestyle - breastfeeding her other baby, not having a nanny - makes her an outcast. Immediately I got a vibe like the Odd Mom Out show i've been enjoying on Bravo.

But this book takes a turn - a weird one. There are enough complexities to the main character's background to satisfy a book - she is recovering from an eating disorder, and lost a best friend when she became a mother to someone who chose career instead, but the friendship haunts her. And yet even with all that, the author decides that (spoiler alert) a LESBIAN AFFAIR between the main character and one of the other moms is in order. An affair that the other women's husband assists in and supports.

Anyway, what was a fun read to begin with became so unrealistic it was just no fun to finish.

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