Tuesday, January 09, 2018

Review: The Grownup

The Grownup The Grownup by Gillian Flynn
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This was a novella/short story that I received from the Book of the Month Club as part of my welcome package. I liked it - read it in one gulp at my daughter's dance class. It was about a (somewhat fake) fortune-teller who befriends an affluent woman. The story is about the fortune-teller's increasingly complex relationship with the woman and her troubled step-son. For a short piece, it was great on character development and plot.

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Sunday, January 07, 2018

Review: I Was Told to Come Alone: My Journey Behind the Lines of Jihad

I Was Told to Come Alone: My Journey Behind the Lines of Jihad I Was Told to Come Alone: My Journey Behind the Lines of Jihad by Souad Mekhennet
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I really enjoyed reading this memoir by Mekhennet that I first heard about on The Bustle. She is a German Muslim who becomes a well-respected journalist covering the Middle East for (among other publications) the Washington Post. Her stories about meeting leaders and sources from within Al-queda, ISIS, and other terror organizations are fascinating. She is both brave and honest in this book. I enjoyed learning about her personal conflicts and opportunities being Muslim, and I learned much more nuance about the current state of the Middle East than I had known. I also really appreciated reading this account from a non-American's point of view, which was definitely a different take than if she had been American. Highly recommended.

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Monday, January 01, 2018

Top Books of 2017

Hello readers!

This year I read 68 books – yes, 68.  I’ve learned how to read on the train during my commute, which involves some complex life hacks (like keeping my finger in the book when switching subway lines) and some reading glasses (yikes!), and it’s added about an hour of reading a day to my life. What a gift.

Here are my favorites. Each book is linked to my review, as well as to Amazon (“AMZ”):

Given the political climate and tragic resurgence of racism, sexism, classism, and every other “ism” there is, I read several books with the goal of staying angry, and better understanding what is going on. The best of these were by patriarchy-dismantling women, including Jessica Valenti’s Sex Object: A Memoir (AMZ), Rebecca Solnit’s Men Explain Things to Me (AMZ), and Roxanne Gay’s Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body (AMZ). Charles Blow’s account of his life growing up poor and closeted in rural Louisiana, and his triumphant reclaiming of his story, was excellent: Fire Shut Up in My Bones (AMZ). I also enjoyed Tales of Two Americas: Stories of Inequality in a Divided Nation (AMZ), a compilation of fiction, essays, and poetry about the state of our country.

In case this presidency does end in apocalypse, zombie-themed or not, I am prepared, having read The Girl with All the Gifts (AMZ) (zombies, but also human connection), Seveneves (AMZ) (saga of humanity set in outer space), and American War (AMZ) (a near-future where the North and South go to war over energy). They were three excellent post-apocolyptical stories, coincidentally (?) all with female protagonists.

I read some other less political non-fiction too.  Without a Map (AMZ) was a beautiful memoir by a women raised in a religious family who gives up a baby for adoption. I finally got to Eat, Pray, Love (AMZ), which I don’t know why I resisted for so long – if you’re the other person who has not read it, go for it. Lab Girl (AMZ)was a tough memoir about a young scientist. I discovered Jenny Rosenstrach and her memoir/cookbook Dinner: A Love Story (AMZ) about family meals was lovely (and realistic). And on the worst days this year, I turned to Anne Lamott, most notably her Grace (Eventually) (AMZ) essays, whose reflections on George Bush seem both quaint and relevant.

The fiction I read was across a wide variety of topics and themes. In March, I joined the Book of the Month Club, and now I eagerly await the 1st of each month, when the new selections come out. Many of these wonderful books came from there.

Some of my favorite fiction this year was about families and relationships. The Unseen World (AMZ) was probably my favorite, set in Boston, about a young woman who unravels her father’s life story after he becomes ill.  All the Ugly and Wonderful Things (AMZ) (Book of the Month Club’s best book of 2016) was both sweet and challenging, while Boy, Snow, Bird (AMZ) was a clever retelling of a fairy tale with a racial twist. 

The Nix (AMZ) purported to be about a young man who beings to investigate his mother’s anti-Vietnam revolutionary past, but was really more of a lovely exploration of characters and relationships. Twelve Lives of Samuel Hawley (AMZ) explored a special father-daughter relationship, and its complex history.

The Blinds (AMZ) was a fun ride, which I’m waiting to see adapted into a mini-series, about a town where criminals and witnesses live with their memories wiped out, and Dark Matter (AMZ) was a modern, fast-paced adaptation of the age-old multi-verse theme. Lots of people read A Man Called Ove (AMZ) this year, and I too fell for his misanthropic antics. And I also enjoyed J.K. Rowling’s The Casual Vacancy (AMZ), a major drama in a small-town setting.

I also enjoyed some historical fiction. Isabel Allende’s seminal The House of the Spirits (AMZ) captivated me with its three-generation saga of a family with just enough magical realism. I couldn’t put The Underground Railroad (AMZ) down, rooting for the protagonist so strongly. I finally got around to reading The Glass Castle author Jeannette Walls’ Half Broke Horses (AMZ), technically fiction, but very much based on the author’s family history in the wild west of the early 20th century.

Finally, I delighted in The Women in the Castle (AMZ), about the relationships formed among the women whose husbands were involved in an unsuccessful plot to assassinate Hitler, as well as Kindred (AMZ), a beautiful story about a woman who time-travels to a plantation during slavery, and her relationship with a young boy there. It’s not nearly as weird as it sounds. It’s more Piercy than Gabaldon.

Well, that’s it for this year. Happy 2018, and as Neil Gaiman says, “I hope you read some fine books.”  If you do, tell me about them.

Sheryl


PS: To see all the books I read this year, you can visit my blog or find me on Goodreads. I cleaned up my “want to read” list, then the end-of-year booklists came out again so there goes that, but you can see what may be up next on Goodreads too.

Saturday, December 30, 2017

Review: Bonfire

Bonfire Bonfire by Krysten Ritter
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I got this book from Book of the Month, and for a quick read, and a first novel by an actress, it was surprisingly good! It is about a woman who returns to her childhood small town after becoming a lawyer to investigate an environmental charge against the town's largest employer, a chemical company. Replete with old boyfriends, high school drama revisited, and juicy characters, it kept me up late at night. A really fun read.

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Wednesday, December 27, 2017

Review: Dinner: A Love Story: It All Begins at the Family Table

Dinner: A Love Story: It All Begins at the Family Table Dinner: A Love Story: It All Begins at the Family Table by Jenny Rosenstrach
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I love love loved this book. I discovered Rosenstrach when she wrote a column for Bon Appetit about the things she has learned about feeding kids, and when I posted that on Facebook, several friends turned me on to the fact that she has a cookbook, blog, and empire! This book was sweet - it was a memoir about her life before marriage, upon marriage, and upon kids, with recipes for each stage of life. And the recipes are delicious!! I loved hearing her stories, and really enjoyed getting a "professional" opinion on what is and isn't reasonable for toddlers and preschoolers to do at the dinner table, and to eat. A must-read for parents!

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Review: The Sympathizer

The Sympathizer The Sympathizer by Viet Thanh Nguyen
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

This is a book that made me feel kind of dumb, or uncultured, or too impatient. It won the Pulitzer. It is considered groundbreaking and all that. And I didn't feel like I really "got" it. It was about a Communist spy embedded in Vietnam. Parts of the book were about his life, his escape from Vietnam in the last days before the fall of Saigon, and about his lifelong friendship with two boys, one Communist, and one not. But the structure of the book (a confession), the climax (the revision of the confession), and the denouement (not completely even clear to me) were confusing. I enjoyed reading about the narrator's life and story, but the ending got too theoretical and fantastical for me.

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Thursday, December 21, 2017

Review: Tales of Two Americas: Stories of Inequality in a Divided Nation

Tales of Two Americas: Stories of Inequality in a Divided Nation Tales of Two Americas: Stories of Inequality in a Divided Nation by John Freeman
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This might be one of those, "if you only read one book this year" books - in that it truly captures what is going on in America today. Not my America, of $5 lattes, but of people struggling to make ends meet, facing deep questions about identity, and many other important things taking place right now. I noticed this book in Denver's Tattered Cover bookstore, and seeing that it included writing by Ann Patchett, Roxane Gay, and Rebecca Solnit was enough to convince me. After reading it, I found many, many more wonderful authors sharing their stories and those of others, and I learned a lot.

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Friday, December 15, 2017

Review: The Sisters Chase

The Sisters Chase The Sisters Chase by Sarah Healy
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Oy. This book had promise - it was about a set of sisters whose mother dies, and the elder takes on raising the younger. The motel their family owns ends up owing too much in back taxes to be worth anything, so they go on the run, which begins with their distant (and filthy rich) cousins, and continues for several decades. I did not enjoy the writing, the plotting, or the characters. The characters were mostly archetypes, not well-developed, and the major twists were all thin and predictable. I did not enjoy this one at all.

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Monday, December 11, 2017

Review: The Nix

The Nix The Nix by Nathan Hill
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book was great - Lisa kept recommending it to me, and when I finally got started I could tell why. The story is nominally about a young man who, when faced with an overdue manuscript for his publisher, agrees to investigate his estranged mother, whom he learns is a radical from the 1960's. However, the book is so much more than that - Hill is a master at characterization, from the main characters to minor people, he paints such a clear picture of who they are, that it seems as if you know them. While the plot of this book was interesting enough, it was the characters that really made it great. Thanks, Lisa!

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Friday, December 08, 2017

Review: Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers

Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers by Anne Lamott
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

While I love Annie, I mean, REALLY love Annie, this book was just ok. I typically lose myself in her writing, invite myself into her anecdotes, and come out of reading her feeling like I have the power to be a better person. This book, not so much. It didn't have enough of her charming stories or self-deprecating encouragement for my taste - it was too straightforward without enough personality. I did like the idea of their being three categories of prayer (which, coincidentally was covered in my daughter's Hebrew School class the same week I was reading this), but didn't find that illuminating enough to carry the book.

I'll definitely read more of Annie's books, and hope they are more like her others than like this one.

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Saturday, December 02, 2017

Review: The Girl with All the Gifts

The Girl with All the Gifts The Girl with All the Gifts by M.R. Carey
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This was a creepy book - one that I had seen twice at Tattered Cover Bookstore in Denver this year (and I don't live in Denver!) - that I requested at the library. It is about a girl, who at the outset seems like a lovely and curious pre-teen imprisoned in an institution that is part mental hospital and part prison. Over the course of the book, however, we learn that some sort of apocalyptical event occurred and this girl (and others like her) may be very dangerous.

Part psycho-thriller, part post-apocalyptic story, and part a story about humans connecting to each other, with a dose of The Passage, this was thoroughly enjoyable, if you're into that kind of thing. And I am.

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Review: A Really Good Day: How Microdosing Made a Mega Difference in My Mood, My Marriage, and My Life

A Really Good Day: How Microdosing Made a Mega Difference in My Mood, My Marriage, and My Life A Really Good Day: How Microdosing Made a Mega Difference in My Mood, My Marriage, and My Life by Ayelet Waldman
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book was really interesting. I noticed it on the shelf at the Tattered Cover bookstore in Denver, then requested it at the library. Waldman is an author (herself married to author Michael Chabon), known for both her books as well as a controversial Modern Love column where she proclaimed loving her husband more than her children.

The book is part memoir (of her life with mental illness: Depression, Bipolar, and PMDD), part medical log (of her month micro-dosing with LSD rather than traditional psychiatric drugs), and part history (of drugs in the United States, both medicinal and illegal). She has a very unique point of view, both as a patient and as a former attorney, and she is meticulous in how she wields those personas throughout the book. She is generous and brave and honest in her writing, and I learned a lot reading her book.

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Wednesday, November 22, 2017

Review: Pride and Prejudice

Pride and Prejudice Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

As an avid reader, it is of some embarrassment to me that along the way, I missed reading anything by Jane Austen or the Bronte sisters. When I Facebook-confessed this, I was led to this book. It was a fun read. I found myself staying up late to find out what would happen in certain chapters, and laughing out loud at times. Like the experience of watching Downton Abbey, I found this to be more relatable than I expected, and the characters more complex than I gave them credit for at first blush. While I'm not sure I'd subsist on a diet exclusively of old English literature, I will certainly pick up another Austin (or Bronte) in the future.

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Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Review: The House of the Spirits

The House of the Spirits The House of the Spirits by Isabel Allende
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This was a truly amazing book. Every time I read something by Allende, I'm reminded not to be intimidated, rather to feel invited, for she is such a gifted writer. This book is a saga about a family who is touched by the supernatural, but in the magical realism way that great Latin American authors seem able to introduce without distraction. The patriarch is a large landowner who provides both a great and terrible life for those who serve him. He marries a women whom he loves his entire life, though she can't forgive him for certain things during their marriage. Their daughter and granddaughter are equally enthralling characters, and introduce modernity into the family, ultimately making revolutionary changes to its structure, and to the world around them. What a great read!

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Monday, November 13, 2017

Review: The Buried Giant

The Buried Giant The Buried Giant by Kazuo Ishiguro
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

This was a very strange book, and I have a hard time giving it a star rating. It starts with an older couple, living in England - sort of - in a fairyland time, but amongst some historical figures. There is a mysterious mist that removes people's memories, and they have only a hazy sense that they had a son, and no real memory of how or where to find him. Nevertheless they set off to his village, encountering soldiers, goats, mountains, dragons, and descendants of King Arthur's Court on their journey. The story was quaint at times, and horrifying at other times, and some reviews I read said it was not just an adult fairy tale, but a meditation on memory and loss. Sorry, I didn't get there with it - I found the book a bit of a slog and was unsurprised at some of the most important plot turns.

Ishiguro won the Nobel Prize for Literature while I was reading this, so I'm willing to bet I missed the point of this book, not that it was bad, but as a reader I can't say I enjoyed reading it.

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